Frequently Asked Questions


Q. What is "Dinner Swingers"?

Dinner Swingers is an exclusive, private membership club for couples who enjoy dinner and debauchery in some of the most beautiful and secluded locations imaginable.

Q. Can you tell me a bit about a "Dinner Swingers" dinner party?

At a Dinner Swingers dinner party you will discover a sensual world of heavenly food and wicked pleasures with new friends. We will have a professional chef prepare and cook dinner, during which time we will all get to know each other a little better. Shortly after dinner you will be able to indulge in fun as you see fit. The Dinner Swingers evening is an excellent opportunity to find out more in a relaxed, non intimidating, non judgemental environment.

Q. What should I wear to a Dinner Swingers party?

We strongly encourage all guests to wear sexy evening wear, for women a little black dress and for the men, think black tie. This is the very least we will accept. If we have a theme night guests are asked to dress in accordance with the theme of the evening. No denim jeans or trainers please, ever. Also, there will be no nudity before or whilst dinning.

Q. How many people will be at the dinner party?

Our exclusive dinner parties are normally limited to a maximum of 12 couples per evening, this is somewhat dependent on the location. In addition, there will be the host and hostess and their staff, plus we quite often have sexy waitresses and hunky waiters to serve.

Q. What type of people can I expect to attend a Dinner Swingers party?

You can expect to find wealthy couples who share a love of beautiful locations, good food and adult fun. Our members ages range from 18-75, but as an average are broadly in the 30-50 range. Dinner Swingers is only open to couples and single ladies aged 18 or over.

Q. What type of food will we be served?

You will have received and chosen from the set menu as part of the party invitation. Your dinner will then be prepared and cooked on-site using fresh local produce by a professional chef. It will be served over 3, 4 or sometimes even 5 courses. If the party includes overnight accommodation at one of our own properties, then in addition to the main event, room and butler service will be offered to all guests for the duration of the stay.

Q. I'm worried about privacy?

Dinner Swingers was formed as the solution to that very problem, with our entire ethos being built around privacy. And our locations whilst always sublimely beautiful, are also sublimely private.

Q. Where are your parties held?

Our parties are held in locations considered beautiful yet secluded. Think walled castles, private islands, penthouse suites, historic manor houses, stately homes and private villas.

Q. I have a "Dinner Swingers" introduction card, what does this mean?

These are rare, and it means one of the club directors or their affiliates believe you can afford and may enjoy what Dinner Swingers has to offer, so they have given you a VIP membership pass.

Q. What if I have more questions?

If you or your partner have any other questions, please feel free to contact us, or have your concierge complete the membership application. One of our member support team will be in contact and will answer anything you need to know.